60 ways to keep your wife's love, Guaranteed

60 ways to keep your wife's love, Guaranteed
by Ahmed Shehab

note: pardon my english ;-)

"if you are not happy at home, rest assure that wou will not be happy anywhere else"
55 minutes video.


1. make her feel secure
2. give salam when reach home
3. take care of her, and remember there are lots of goodness in her
4. advice her in privacy
5. be generous
6. give her seat, give her space
7. avoid anger
8. looking good, smelling great
9. dont be rigid, be gentle
10. be a good listener
11. yes for flattering, no for arguing
12. call the wife with the best name she loves to hear
13. pleasant suprise sometime
14. preserving the time
15. expect and accept the shortcoming
16. show, tell the appreciation
17. encourage her to be kind with her mom dad
18. speak of her interest
19. right infront of her relatives show that she is wonderful
20. give each other gifts
21. get rid of routine
22. thinking good of the wife
23. pretend you didnt hear or see smthg bad that she did
24. increase the patience during the pregnancy and menstrual period
25. expect and respect her jealousy
26. be humble to her
27. sacrifice own happiness
28. help around home
29. help her respects and to be kind to your mom and dad
30. make her feel she is an ideal wife
31. remember her in your du'a
32. leave the past to ALLAH
33. dont try to show her that you are doing her favours
34. syaitan is your enemy, not your wife
35. put food to her mouth
36. protect the wife from envy
37. show her your smile
38. dont ignore the small matters / problems; solve it
39. avoid being hard harsh hearted..
40. respect, appreciate her thinking, her ideas
41. help her to dig to find more skills for her
42. respecting the intimate relationship and the boundaries of it
43. help her to take care the of child/ren
44. the gifts of the tongue..
45. eat together
46. let her know that you are travelling.. where and when
47. avoid arguing by leaving home for 2,3 minutes
48. privacy, secretcy stay at home
49. encourage her, help each other to worship ALLAH, ibadah..
50. know her rights
51. treat her with kindness, fairness, goodness
52. give her kisses, dont just jump on her..
53. dont share your dispute with her, with others..
54. show her you care for her health
55. you are not always right
56. share your happiness and sadness
57. have mercy on her weakness
58. offer your shoulder for her to cry on
59. accept her as is
60. have a good intention for/with wife

OK, here is the video

Iklan Raya Petronas

Raya dah dekat, buat yg di perantaun macam aku ni, masa nii laa teringat nak tgk iklan raya..

Petronas Aidil Fitri 2007

bagi aku laa, aku rasa iklan petronas 2007 tak de kick sgt banding 2006 yg kat bawah nii..


Petronas Aidil Fitri 2006

frankly, termengalir air mata aku nengok yg 2006 nii


Petronas Aidil Fitri 2005



Petronas Aidil Fitri 2004



Petronas Aidil Fitri 2003



Petronas Aidil Fitri ????

Noble Work

Pagi tadi aku jumpa ngan supervisor aku, aku cakap "Boss, when can I get the money for TARC teaching?"

Boss aku jawab balik: "What money? Teaching is a noble work.. You dont ask for money when you did something noble.."

Ish laa.. dah laa aku skrg ni dah takde scholarship..

Rasa Bijak Tanjyou..

Ish laa.. macam besh je tajuk "Rasa Bijak Tanjyou" (tanjyou = kemunculan/kelahiran)

takde menda dlm blog ni, cuma sekadar luahan hati sanubari aku je; kekadang aku rasa meluat dgn org yg rasa bijak ni, macam aku diri sendiri..

aku pun sebenarnya “rasa bijak” jugak, tapi tak laa aku rasa aku ni sungguh2 bijak, cuma stakat bijak ala2 kadar jek.. org lain / rerakan ngaji sampai peringkat PhD, aku pun ngaji PhD jugak, tapi PhD aku nih, dah dekat 4 tahun tak jugak sesiap.. tapi insyaALLAH, aku akan guna sepenuh masa yg diizinkan utk siapkan thesis PhD aku tu.. insyaALLAH